Not My Rock

All about surviving childhood abuse in a dysfunctional family and learning how to break out of a painful family system.

Monday, September 16, 2013

You's and We's

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We've got teenage girls going sideways all over the place here in the Casa de Vanci.  Sometimes the ride is so fast and steep that I fee...
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Sunday, September 15, 2013

For the Jonsies

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(Those of you who follow me know that I've been out of the blogland loop for awhile.  I've been trying to reacquaint myself over the...
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Thursday, September 12, 2013

Shame is a Weapon

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Hola, cyberfriends. It's been a bit, please forgive my absence; life gets busy.  There's been a lot shakin' in Vanciland; mostl...
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Thursday, May 16, 2013

That Which Shall Not Be Named - Still Exists

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I adore some of the people who make up the family that I married into.  Others I try to find ways to understand and, lacking that, I meditat...
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Thursday, May 2, 2013

Living Well

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I've been out of the blogland loop for a while, and I miss it.  I miss all of you.  I miss posting because I miss the craft of it - this...
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Thursday, March 21, 2013

The Kindness of A Stranger

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Yesterday would have been the 85th birthday of one of my heroes, Mr. Fred Rogers . I loved his television show, Mister Rogers Neighborhood ...
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Monday, March 18, 2013

Overcoming Trauma

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I'm a pattern seeker.  I always have been.  My brain has always been wired for puzzles, and they've consequently always been fun and...
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Vanci
I am an adult daughter of a Narcissistic Mother (NM) and Enabling Narcissistic Father (ENF.) I have been estranged by choice from my entire famiy of origin for six years and I am on a journey that I hope will lead to health, happiness and freedom from fear. I have a DH and two daughters of my own, and want to share my story with anyone who might need to hear it. There's hope and life away from the painful cycles of abuse can be wonderful!
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